Depression is not Sadness

Post Date: November 15, 2021
Author: Eileen Borski

“Let us pray that people who suffer from depression or burn-out will find support and a light that opens them up to life.” – Pope Francis

What is depression? First, let’s think about what it is not. Depression is not sadness, although it includes sadness. Sadness is normal and common. We all experience it from time to time when we lose a job, a pet or a loved one. Sadness comes and goes, lasts for a short time, and does not stop someone from enjoying a movie or a good meal. However, with depression, a trigger is not needed. Depression just exists. Depression permeates everything and exists even when someone has a great reason for joy such as a new job or the birth of a child. Depression engulfs the entire human existence including one’s body, mind and spirit, and many times includes a sense of negative self-worth and guilt. A mental health professional is needed to help determine if someone meets the criteria for depression. If the criteria are met, a licensed mental health professional can work to develop a treatment plan recognizing and including objectives related to one’s faith and prayer life. In addition, a licensed mental health professional may provide referrals to a doctor for medication support if needed.

The reality of suffering with depression is significant. More than 19 million persons in the United States had at least one major depressive episode in 2020. This represents 8% of the US adult population. The reality present today was also present in the times of the writing of the scriptures.

Where does depression show up in the scriptures? Job, David, Elijah, Jeramiah and Jonah all suffered with some of these men even asking God to take their lives. Jesus even anguished with deep despair over the reality of his situation. God offered support then and continues to offer support now through our own prayers and reflection on scripture verses. Many times, God’s encouragement appears in the Book of Psalms. Look to these when deep despair or depression is present:

  • Psalm 40: 1-4: “The Lord…draws me up from the pit of destruction.”
  • Psalm 34:18: “…the LORD hears and he rescues them from all their afflictions.”
  • Psalm 9:10: ‘The LORD is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.”

For the month of November, Pope Francis’ prayer intentions recognize the burden of living with depression. He also speaks of the burden of mental health struggles and how to listen versus speaking when accompanying someone on their journey.

So, let us join Pope Francis in his prayer intentions for November by incorporating into our own prayers, a prayer for those suffering with depression. 

In closing, if you are experiencing a mental health crisis and are considering suicide, please immediately reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 800-273-8255.

Remember our Mental Health Matters to God. 

Author: Eileen Borski

National Certified Counselor

M.Ed. Clinical Mental Health Counseling

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Para el segundo año de preparación sacramental, los padres siguen siendo los primeros maestros de la fe (CCC n.º 2226). Este es un rol continuo tanto para los padres como para la vida de los estudiantes.

La preparación sacramental se llevará a cabo una vez al mes. Se pide a las familias que asistan semanalmente a la misa dominical, compartan el Evangelio en casa, participen en un retiro, recen el Rosario y que los padres asistan a una charla mensual con nuestro querido sacerdote.

Se ponen recursos a disposición de los padres, especialmente en lo relativo a la misa. Se pide a los estudiantes que traigan un misal para que lo firmen al finalizar la misa de su elección (sábado o domingo).

A continuación, se presentan las fechas de las charlas dirigidas a los padres. Los estudiantes asistirán a clases en un aula en la misma fecha y horario: de 6:30 p. m. a 8:00 p. m.

Se realizarán evaluaciones a los estudiantes; por favor, consulten las Pautas Sacramentales.

La preparación para la Primera Reconciliación y la Primera Comunión está abierta a todos los jóvenes bautizados - a partir del segundo grado escolar - que cumplan con los siguientes requisitos del programa:

  • La familia debe ser miembro registrado de la Parroquia del Sagrado Corazón. Si no son miembros registrados del Sagrado Corazón, los padres deben presentar una carta del párroco de la parroquia en la que estén registrados, otorgando permiso para que el niño se prepare y celebre los sacramentos en el Sagrado Corazón. También se requiere el permiso del párroco si la familia está registrada en el Sagrado Corazón, pero solicita que la celebración se realice en otra iglesia católica.
  • Los padres deben presentar una copia original del certificado de bautismo del niño antes de la fecha límite establecida. Si el niño no ha sido bautizado en la fe católica, realizará una "Profesión de Fe".
  • El niño debe contar con un mínimo de un año de educación religiosa previa, cursada en el programa de formación en la fe de la parroquia (FE EN EL HOGAR) o en una escuela católica.
  • El niño debe estar inscrito y participando activamente en el año actual del programa de educación religiosa de la parroquia (Preparación Sacramental) o en una escuela católica.
  • La familia debe asistir a la Misa dominical con regularidad.
  • El niño y sus padres deben asistir a TODAS las sesiones de preparación sacramental.
  • Una vez completadas todas las sesiones de preparación requeridas, el niño participará en una entrevista para evaluar su disposición para recibir los sacramentos.

El Párroco, el Coordinador de Preparación Sacramental y los padres determinarán conjuntamente la disposición del niño - tanto catequética como espiritual - para recibir los sacramentos.

El año pasado, las familias de primer año siguieron el nuevo plan de estudios «Fe en el hogar». Aunque todavía tenemos mucho en lo que podemos crecer, nos alegra enormemente que nuestras familias hayan completado el año y que ahora estén practicando su fe y siguiendo un nuevo estilo de vida. «Fe en el hogar» es un programa novedoso en el que nuestras familias no tienen que asistir en persona ni semanalmente, sino solo una vez al mes. Se pide a las familias que asistan a la misa dominical cada semana, compartan el Evangelio en casa, participen en un retiro, recen el Rosario y que los padres asistan a una charla mensual con nuestro querido sacerdote. Hay recursos disponibles para los padres, especialmente para la Misa. Se pide a los estudiantes que traigan un libro de misa para que lo firmen al finalizar la misa que elijan (sábado o domingo). A continuación, se presentan las fechas de las charlas para padres; los estudiantes estarán en clase el mismo día y horario: 6:30 PM a 8:00 PM.

For year 2, sacramental preparation, parents are still the first teachers of faith CCC#2226. This is an ongoing role for the parents and for the students' lives.

Sacramental preparation would be once a month. Families are asked to attend weekly Sunday mass, share the Gospel at home, participate in a retreat, pray the Rosary, and have parents attend a monthly talk with our beloved priest.

Resources are available to parents, especially for Mass. Students are asked to bring a Mass book to be signed by the end of the Mass of their choice (Saturday or Sunday).

Here are the dates for parent talks. The students will be in a classroom setting on the same date and time: 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM

Evaluations will be held for students, please refer to the Sacrament Guidelines.

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Last year, first-year families followed the new Faith at Home curriculum. Even though we have a lot to grow in, we are very happy that our families have completed the year and are now practicing their faith and following a new way of life.  

Faith at Home is a new program where our families do not have to come in person weekly, but once a month. Families are asked to attend weekly Sunday mass, share the Gospel at home, participate in a retreat, pray the Rosary, and have parents attend a monthly talk with our beloved priest.  

Resources are available to parents, especially for Mass. Students are asked to bring a Mass book with them to be signed by the end of any Mass of their choice (Saturday or Sunday).  

Here are the dates for parent talks. The students will be in a classroom setting on the same date and time:

April 20th from 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM

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