Funeral Planning

– Romans 8:37-39
Planning the funeral mass for your loved one
The Clergy and parish family of Sacred Heart assure you of our prayers and loving support during your time of sorrow.
The details of arranging funeral services may feel overwhelming. Know that the funeral director at the funeral home is your main contact and will coordinate all services and times for your family, contacting the Church on your behalf. Reach out to the Funeral Home and Director first.
As you go through this preparation, we encourage you to consider the following:
A Mass of Resurrection
We encourage all Catholics, through those planning their funeral services, to have a Mass said on the day of their burial with the body present at the Church. The Mass is the prayer Jesus gave us at the Last Supper and is His Sacrifice that atones for the sins of our loved one whose body we honor with Christian burial. Of all the services we could choose, for Catholics, this is the most important as we ask God to mercifully cleanse our loved one of sin and receive him or her into his heavenly kingdom. Masses of Resurrection are scheduled at Sacred Heart during the weekdays, not on weekends because there are often weddings and baptisms.
Cremation
Catholics may choose cremation. The Church encourages us to wait until after the Mass of Resurrection to do the cremation so that the body is present at the Church for this Mass. When choosing cremation, please plan to inter the cremains in a grave or columbarium when you receive them from the funeral home. It is important to honor the cremains with a final resting place rather than keeping them in our homes. This is also important for us who grieve the death of our loved one, giving us closure.
Vigil Service
We encourage parishioners to have an evening vigil service for family and friends who may not be able to attend during the day. While the traditional prayer offered at the vigil is the Rosary, there is an option for a Liturgy of the Word that is more comforting for those attending who are from different Christian denominations. You may choose to have the Liturgy of the Word followed by the praying of the Rosary.
Funeral Reception Meal
At Sacred Heart, we offer a meal after the burial of your loved one for immediate and extended family members – for approximately fifty people. Please let us know if you desire this. Please also note that during the pandemic this option may not always be available.
Planning the Mass of Resurrection
To make this celebration more personal, we invite you to choose the Scripture Readings and to suggest hymns for the Mass. Use these links on this page recommended by the Church. Choose four readings: one from Old Testament, one from Responsorial Psalms, one from New Testament, and one from the Gospel.
The pall is the white cloth that covers the casket during a Catholic funeral. The pall recalls the white garment worn by Catholic Christians at the time of one's baptism. It may be placed on the casket by family members or friends. A pall is not placed over cremated remains. Flags and other insignia may cover the casket before and after the liturgy. If the deceased has a personal bible and/or cross, family members or loved ones are invited to place these on the casket at the beginning of Mass. The first step in planning a funeral is to choose the Scripture readings to be read as part of the Liturgy of the Word. First Readings Easter Season Second Readings Using the Funeral Planning Form, you are asked to choose one option from Sections A and B and also provide the name of person who will be reading each reading. Note: The parish could provide parishioners who could read in the event that there is no one from the family who would like to read. The second step is to choose the Gospel reading which will be read by the priest. Gospel Readings Bread and wine are brought to the altar for the celebration of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, which will be offered for the deceased. One family member or friend may speak briefly in remembrance of the deceased and his/her life of faith, virtue and good works. The priest or deacon will introduce the person at the appropriate time. Families and friends are asked to preserve the sacred character of the Catholic Funeral, keeping in mind that the focus of a Catholic Funeral is Jesus Christ and the promise of eternal life. During the remarks, our praise should be directed toward God. Once the Funeral Planning Form is completed, it is reviewed with the Liturgy & Music Director. Please inform us if there will be any Military honors or Civic Groups present such as the Knights of Columbus, VFW or Lyons Club. After you have made all of your selections, please fill out the planning form. Yes, a celebration of the Mass is strongly encouraged for any Catholic who has died, even though the family may not be Catholic. On days when a Funeral Mass is not permitted, a prayer service is celebrated (for example, Funeral Masses are not scheduled on Sundays, Holy Days of Obligation, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, or Holy Saturday). The family is encouraged to meet with someone from the worship office to help plan the music. Please be aware that there are a fixed number of liturgical texts at a funeral Mass, which affect what may be sung. Also note that recorded music or secular music cannot be used at Mass. A parish cantor will sing for the funeral. A list of many appropriate and commonly chosen hymns may be found by clicking here. Depending on minister and room availability, we may offer a reception for immediate family, serving up to 50 of your guests. With prior permission, the visitation can take place one hour prior to the funeral in the Narthex. Yes, after communion a eulogy may be given for no longer than 3-5 minutes. Yes, the Church permits cremation [CCC2301], but the Church still prefers burial or entombment of the deceased. Click here for a more detailed explanation. There is no charge to use the church for a funeral or the parish hall for a meal after the funeral. Flowers may be brought into the vestibule of the church, but normally not into the nave and sanctuary of the church (with the exception of the casket spray or a small vase of flowers next to the cremains). Yes, visiting priests are welcome at Sacred Heart. Depending on minister and room availability, the goal of our Funeral Meal Ministry is to provide families with a light reception after the service at no charge. Please consult with the Parish Office for availability. Yes, a worship aid will be printed for the service.STEP 1: Provide Names of those Placing Pall
STEP 2: Select the 1st & 2nd Readings / Provide Reader Names
STEP 3: Selecting the Gospel
STEP 4: Selecting The Prayers of the Faithful
STEP 5: Provide 2 names to bring The Gifts of Bread and Wine for The Eucharist
Words of Remembrance (Optional)
Does the Church recommend a Funeral Mass?
Can I choose the Scripture readings or does the Church choose them?
Can I choose the hymns for the Vigil Service and/or the Mass?
Can we have a reception after the funeral?
If there is no visitation the evening before, can we have visitation one hour before the funeral?
Can I have friends and family members offer a eulogy?
Does the Catholic Church allow cremation?
Does the church charge for funerals?
Can I bring flowers into the church?
May I request a priest from another parish celebrate my funeral?
Can we have a reception after the funeral?
Will there be a program for the service?
Mass Intention
Rather than scheduling a private Memorial Mass, we encourage you to reserve a Mass Intention at the parish office and invite family and friends to attend. This allows others from the parish who attend daily or weekend masses to be present to pray with you and for the soul of your loved one.
First Anniversary – One Year Mass Intention
Again, instead of a private Mass, we encourage you to reserve a Mass Intention for your loved one on the date of the one-year anniversary of the death, or a date close to that one at which you and other family and friends may attend. This allows others in the parish family to be in prayer with you at this sacred time.
Bereavement Support Groups
We encourage you to consider journeying with others who have also experienced the death of a loved one. Currently, we offer groups in English or Spanish and there is a special group available for parents who have experienced the death of a child. Contact: Linda Galanos atlgalanos@consolidated.netor call(936) 525-8738
Individual and Family Counseling
As you experience grief, there are many emotions and sometimes you may feel overwhelmed. We invite you to consider talking with a Catholic Counselor at Gratia Plena. Their contact information is(832) 532-0129andwww.gratiaplenacounseling.org.
Yes, a celebration of the Mass is strongly encouraged for any Catholic who has died, even though the family may not be Catholic. On days when a Funeral Mass is not permitted, a prayer service is celebrated (for example, Funeral Masses are not scheduled on Sundays, Holy Days of Obligation, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, or Holy Saturday). The family is encouraged to meet with someone from the worship office to help plan the music. Please be aware that there are a fixed number of liturgical texts at a funeral Mass, which affect what may be sung. Also note that recorded music or secular music cannot be used at Mass. A parish cantor will sing for the funeral. A list of many appropriate and commonly chosen hymns may be found by clicking here. Depending on minister and room availability, we may offer a reception for immediate family, serving up to 50 of your guests. With prior permission, the visitation can take place one hour prior to the funeral in the Narthex. Yes, after communion a eulogy may be given for no longer than 3-5 minutes. Yes, the Church permits cremation [CCC2301], but the Church still prefers burial or entombment of the deceased. Click here for a more detailed explanation. There is no charge to use the church for a funeral or the parish hall for a meal after the funeral. Flowers may be brought into the vestibule of the church, but normally not into the nave and sanctuary of the church (with the exception of the casket spray or a small vase of flowers next to the cremains). Yes, visiting priests are welcome at Sacred Heart. Depending on minister and room availability, the goal of our Funeral Meal Ministry is to provide families with a light reception after the service at no charge. Please consult with the Parish Office for availability. Yes, a worship aid will be printed for the service.Does the Church recommend a Funeral Mass?
Can I choose the Scripture readings or does the Church choose them?
Can I choose the hymns for the Vigil Service and/or the Mass?
Can we have a reception after the funeral?
If there is no visitation the evening before, can we have visitation one hour before the funeral?
Can I have friends and family members offer a eulogy?
Does the Catholic Church allow cremation?
Does the church charge for funerals?
Can I bring flowers into the church?
May I request a priest from another parish celebrate my funeral?
Can we have a reception after the funeral?
Will there be a program for the service?
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